A friend of mine has told me a couple times that I should be more like one person or the other. The problem is that those other unnamed people already exist. These kind of comments are taken with a grain of salt when said person who told me this can't make-up their own mind on who THEY are.

The problem is they want to be like other people and so they try to urge others to not be themselves as it were.

I hate magicians sometimes...